The therapist that I spoke to said that I have to change the way the things that people say affect me, as well as how I respond to them. I have been really thinking about this and I have come up with a response. tell me what you think.
"I know my situation makes you uncomfortable, and you don't know what to say or how to respond, but thank you for your concern and just keep me in your prayers" (all the while saying in my head SCREW YOU).
What do you think? Is that "appropriate" enough?
Where is my expected end?
I think having a response pre-recorded in your head is an awesome idea. I did this way back when we found out something could be wrong with Jenna and I knew people would be nosy. I dreaded them asking how I was doing. So I just came up with my answer which was "well" and "ok". I know it probably is not that great, but it caught some people off guard but at least they knew I was NOT "good". I think your response is very good, more considerate and sweet than I would ever want to be, you are definitely a better person! =)
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I think it's a very good response. Sometimes, I can't bite my tongue and just have to tell people how it is. Do whatever makes you feel best.
ReplyDeleteKnowing what you are going to say is a great way to be prepared. I think what you are planning to say sounds kind and thoughtful of others. You will leave people astounded!
ReplyDeleteYour response is perfect. Its a great way to be prepared. Your way of thinking is awesome. :)
ReplyDeleteI have gotten used to just saying that I am fine and maybe that day I am, but others I am not.
I think that response is perfect. That way people hopefully won't feel the need to continue to bombard you with their "good intentions" but feel they can do "something" by praying...and a little prayer never hurt anyone! :o)
ReplyDeleteThat is perfect. Just perfect. I think I may have to borrow it!!! ;)
ReplyDeleteI think it is a good response. It's nice to have that to say ahead of time, but I bet sometimes it'll be hard to bit your tongue!!
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